Monday, September 25, 2023

Forgiveness Series: The role of Community in Forgiveness processs

 FORGIVENESS SERIES

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COMMUNITY IN THE FORGIVENESS PROCESS.

 

The Gospel of Matthew 18:15-20 provides a profound insight into the nature of interpersonal relationships within the community of believers. At the heart of this teaching lies the imperative of forgiveness, a theme that resonates deeply within the Catholic tradition.

"If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. Truly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. Again, I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.”

The first thing that strikes one when reflecting upon this passage is the importance Jesus places on open communication. When hurt by another, Jesus advises seeking reconciliation through dialogue. This direct approach is not only about addressing the sin or hurt but also about restoring the bond of brotherhood.

However, the path Jesus recommends isn't simply about confrontation; it's about conversion. The hope is that by addressing the issue privately, the wrongdoer will recognize their fault and amend their ways. Thus, the process of forgiveness commences.

If that private dialogue fails, then the matter escalates – witnesses are brought, and if the person remains obstinate, the whole community becomes involved. Here, Jesus underscores the gravity of preserving unity in the community and the lengths to which we should go to maintain it.

Labelling someone as a “Gentile and a tax collector” might seem harsh at first glance. However, in the context of Jesus’ ministry, even Gentiles and tax collectors were recipients of his love and compassion. They were those in need of a deeper conversion. Thus, even in setting someone apart, the community does not abandon them but recognizes the need for a deeper level of engagement and prayerful intervention.

Jesus’ assurance about whatever is bound or loosed on earth resonating in heaven signifies the profound spiritual impact of our earthly actions. In the sacrament of reconciliation, this becomes particularly evident in the Catholic tradition. When priests absolve sins, they act in persona Christi – in the person of Christ, highlighting the divine nature of forgiveness.

Lastly, the affirmation that Jesus is present when two or three gather in His name reinforces the communal aspect of forgiveness. It is not just a matter between the wrongdoer and the one wronged. The whole community, in seeking the will of the Father, participates in the process of healing and reconciliation.

From a Catholic perspective, this passage deeply resonates with our understanding of community, sacrament, and divine mercy. We are reminded that forgiveness isn't passive or strictly private between ourselves and God, but requires effort, dialogue, and a sincere desire to uphold the unity of the community. Our sins, weaknesses and failures have an effect not only on ourselves but the community.  In our interactions with one another, we mirror God's endless mercy and are called to replicate that forgiveness in the world.

When I was at Mass a couple of weeks ago when this Gospel was read, a homily was given which I thought you may find most helpful.  The homily is given by FrJustin Uzabeaga MGL who discusses a helpful process for forgiveness.   


 

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