Saturday, October 24, 2020

Seeing Your Glory

 

REFLECTION AND PRAYER SERIES.


My reflection and prayer series is about sharing reflections and Prayers which have impacted upon me and have provided food for thought. I hope that they will also nurture your soul and spirit.

 

My Scripture reflection is 

 

''The name of the Lord Jesu Christ may be glorified in you and you in Him,
according to the grace of our God and the Lord Jesus Christ.”’   
2 Thessalonians 1:12)

 

Christ the Redeemer

Christ the Redeemer




 

 

My post is called:

 

Seeing Your Glory.

 

Lord whatever You give me to do, I pray

 neither my self nor the work

will stand in the way of others seeing Your Glory.

 

Sunday, October 18, 2020

Collect for 29th Sunday of Year A

COLLECT SERIES

 

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COLLECT

 

The Collect for the 29th Sunday of Year reads as follows:

Almighty ever- living God,

Grant that we may always conform our will to Yours

And serve Your majesty in sincerity of heart.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, Your Son,

who lives and reigns with You in the unity of the Holy Spirit,

one God for ever and ever.

 

 

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

In making this prayer tangible for during the week the following reflection questions

1.How do I conform my will to Yours?

2. How can I conform my will to Yours this coming week?

3. What does it mean to me to serve God’s majesty?

4. What are the hindrances/obstacles which prevent me serving Your majesty in sincerity of heart?

5. What does sincerity of heart mean to me in relation to my relationship with God?

 

GOSPEL REFLECTION

The Gospel is from Matthew 22:15-21. In this Gospel the following issues are highlighted for us to consider:

1.    1. The dual role of being a Christian and a good citizen.
2.    The nature of our intentions in relation to other people.
3.    The importance of honest communication.

 

Let us examine each of these now.

1.    The dual role of being a Christian and a good citizen.

God's plan for humanity man on earth was that humanity should live in the society of his fellowmen. It is necessary that society must be governed, there must be authority which will direct the actions of the component members toward the common good, which common good is principally, though not exclusively, the material welfare of the members as a whole.

As his ultimate end, however, humanity has his spiritual welfare. This government, this temporal power to rule and direct the human groups or societies or states, comes, therefore, from God for it is his will that such societies should exist. The answer of our Lord explicitly restates this fundamental norm of the divine natural law. "Give to Caesar what is Caesar's;" the state authorities have a right to the obedience and cooperation in all things that tend to the material welfare of the state, provided always the spiritual welfare of the members is not impeded by the rulers' demands.

As a partly spiritual being we are destined to be a citizen of a spiritual eternal kingdom, and while on this earth, we have both the obligation and the possibility of preparing ourselves for citizenship in that kingdom. And since this kingdom is of a higher and much more important nature, man's primary aim in life must be to reach that kingdom. He must, in other words, find out and fulfill his duties toward God; he must "give to God what is God's."

This dual citizenship of man and the dual obligations that arise from it are the common knowledge of all from the natural law but are made more explicit still in divine revelation of which today's answer, given by Christ to the Pharisees, is a precise and perfect resume. We have duties to God and duties to our country and the fulfillment of the latter is part of the fulfillment of the former. We Christians have no doubts as to our obligations under these two headings. We fulfill our duties to God by being faithful, loyal, active members of the spiritual kingdom, the Church, which Christ established on earth in order to lead us to our eternal kingdom. We fulfill our duties to our country by loyally obeying the just laws of the State, by paying all lawful taxes, and by contributing our share, whenever called on, toward the common good.

2.      The nature of our intentions in relation to other people

In today’s Gospel we note that the Pharisees wanted to set a trap for Jesus. Note too, that they gather their disciples too, hoping that perhaps some of them at least would turn away from Jesus assuming that, of course Jesus fell for their trap.  Jesus of course did not fall for their trap because He was aware of their malice.
So what about us?  Do we set traps for other people in our lives?  Does malice reside in us?   What is malice?

Malice as a definition means the desire to harm someone; ill will.  Malice means that there is a desire to inflict injury, harm, or suffering on another, either because of a hostile impulse or out of deep-seated meanness:

The desire begins in the heart and often means that the person is needy in some area of his/her life.

 

4.    Like many emotions, malice can be placed on a sliding scale, but it is still malice.  It can start out small but it gathers momentum in our hearts if we do not check it constantly. We need to examine the reasons why we do a particular action/sin against ourselves and others.   We need to bring our heart to Jesus who can read our secret intentions.  Bearing ill will towards our neighbour is not putting into practice the commandment to love- to love God, our neighbour and ourselves.  It is important to remember that when ill will resides in our hearts, it is like a cancer- it will spread and not only can we do harm to others but we also can do harm to our physical, emotional and spiritual health.

3.
The importance of honest communication.

We are taught to communicate from our earliest years.  However, what we have learned may not necessarily be a healthy and honest communication pattern.  Learning to communicate honestly is vital for our own happiness and for our relationships.

Sadly however, many people in society do not engage in honest communication.  It may be out of ignorance to know how to communicate honestly or it may be that they have continues a communication pattern that they have had most of their lives without examining and reviewing it. 
The good news for us is that we can, with commitment and work change our communication patterns to a healthier style and learn to be honest in our communication.
For example: Some people are invited to a party/ office party or dinner party. They really do not want to attend.  Instead of declining the invitation politely, they fear saying no. Instead, because of this fear, they attend a party to which they did not want to attend.  Sometimes people make up an excuse tor not attending the party and later are trapped in themselves from guilt because they know they have lied.  They may also be trapped later as they do not remember the excuse they gave.

Jesus reminds us in scripture to say yes when we mean yes and no when we mean no Anything else comes from the evil one.  This is in essence honest communication.  We do not have to make excuses or attend parties that we do not want to attend.  We do not have to say yes when we mean no or vice versa.  Being truthful and honest helps us live with a clear conscience spiritually but it also nourishes our emotional and physical wellbeing.

Returning to the Gospel of today, we may ask why did the Pharisees want to trap Jesus?  Why did they feel threatened by Jesus?  Why did they gather the disciples to come with them?  When we ponder these questions, we can acknowledge that not only did they feel inadequate, threatened that their status was changing, fearful that they may need to examine their lives and change, wanted to have a power game with Jesus, force the disciples to choose that we, too need to examine our lives and see how malice appears and is operative.  It may be subtle but it can live there. 

Today therefore we are challenged by Jesus to examine our lives, to explore our intentions of our hearts and examine when/where malice exists in us.  We are to learn to review our communication pattern and learn to be honest before Him and before others as well as ourselves.  We are also to remember that we have dual citizenship both on earth and in Heaven but that Heaven is our true home.  We must live out the Gospel values.

 

 

 


Sunday, October 11, 2020

Collect for 28th Sunday of Year A

 

COLLECT SERIES

 


COLLECT

 

The Collect for the 28th Sunday of Year reads as follows:

 

May Your grace, O Lord, we pray,

at all times go before us and follow after

and make us always determined to carry out good works.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, Your Son,

who lives and reigns with You in the unity of the Holy Spirit,

one God for ever and ever.

 

 

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

In making this prayer tangible for during the week the following reflection questions emerged:

1.    What does God’s grace mean for me?

2.    What graces of God do ! need in my life for this coming week?

3.    How often do I pray for God’s grace?

4.    Why must God’s grace before before me and follow after?

5.    What good works will I be determined  to carry out this week?

 

GOSPEL REFLECTION

The Gospel is Matthew 22:1-14 highlights the need to listen to God and heed His warnings.  Like the Pharisees, Jesus  gives us every opportunity to turn away from sin, to turn away from a false path which pride often leads.  He offers us His embrace and mercy if we can be humble enough to say ‘Jesus I am sorry’.  We can receive His mercy and embrace through the sacrament of Reconciliation which is they way Jesus instituted.

·         Are we foolish like the Pharisees to not listen to Jesus and heed His warnings?

·         Is our pride too much that we cannot say ‘ I am sorry’ to Jesus?

·         Do we reject the invitation to the wedding or come to the wedding without our wedding garment of virtue and grace?

 

We too could make the Pharisees' mistake. We have the invitation to the wedding feast; in fact, we are already in the banquet hall, since our baptism; but are we wearing the wedding garment of virtue and grace? Will we be properly dressed in our wedding garment of virtue and grade or will the King come and cast us out?

Being a member of the Church on earth is a wonderful privilege, so if we truly wish to reach heaven, then we need to do what Jesus asks of us.  We need to know Jesus and truly love Him and by His help, we cooperate with the many graces He offers us every day.  The Psalms say ‘ He pours gifts on His beloved as He slumbers’.

The world provides the same obstacles which the Pharisees had—love of this world, its wealth and its pleasures—these can impede us too, unless we are on our guard. The world with its allurements is very close to us; heaven seems very far away.

We  must be prepared to do battle to our ordinary inclinations, to go against them whenever and wherever "the things that are Caesar's" tend to blot out or make us forget "the things that are God's."

We can carry the daily cross, engage in the daily struggle against our evil inclinations and ingrained sins.  We can truly acquire true love of God and neighbour by following the 10 Commandments, the Precepts of the Church, by regular reception of the Sacraments and of course being in relationship with Jesus.

Stop for a moment. When we hear this Gospel proclaimed this Sunday, what decisions will we make?  Will we truly listen, examine our lives and decide on at least one area of our lives that we, through the power of God’s grace change?  Do you want to know more about Grace.  You can check out my series on Grace.

For example: May we tend to have a short fuse- will I hold back that sharp retort and smile and ask a blessing on this person instead.  There are so many ways in our lives to grow in virtue and grace with God’s help.  The first step is to examine our lives, pinpoint the weaknesses and bring them to Jesus.  Yes, there will be times that we fail, but then we turn to Jesus through the sacrament of Reconciliation and say sorry.  This sacrament is not meant for twice a year but regular reception of it provides extra grace- extra fire power to resist the world’s obstacles and our evil inclinations.  If you have not received this Sacrament since the ice age, do not fear.  Make a start today. Contact your priest for an appointment, explain your situation and allow Jesus through the priest to guide and absolve you. Allow Jesus to dress you in the wedding garment again.

If you are reading this post and thinking, I cannot do that because of the restrictions of the coronavirus since the Sacrament of Reconciliation is not offered.  Fear not.  It does not stop us from making good preparation by examining our lives, our sinful inclinations, our weaknesses and asking Jesus through prayer and through live streamed Mass to forgive us when we truly say we are sorry.  Jesus understands the situation of coronavirus and the lack of the sacraments being offered.  Will the coronavirus stop the power of Jesus? No, since He truly loves us and wants to provide us with the wedding garment.  The question is do we really want to wear the wedding garment?

Do you want to be both called and chosen?  Start today with a decision and follow the path that leads to Heaven.

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday, October 10, 2020

On the Cross

 

REFLECTION AND PRAYER SERIES.


My reflection and prayer series is about sharing reflections and Prayers which have impacted upon me and have provided food for thought. I hope that they will also nurture your soul and spirit.

 

My Scripture reflection is 

 


''I have heard your prayer and seen your tears. 
I will heal you.”’   

(2 Kings 20:8)

 

Christ the Redeemer

Christ the Redeemer




 

 

My post is called:

 

On the Cross.

 

There is a place for my broken dreams

Disappointment, defeat, and loss.

I will take my tears as an offering of love

To the Saviour who suffered and died for me

On the Cross..

 

Sunday, September 27, 2020

Collect for 26th Sunday of Year A

 

COLLECT SERIES

 


COLLECT

 

The Collect for the 26th Sunday of Year reads as follows:

 

O God, who manifest Your almighty power above all by pardoning and showing mercy,

Bestow we, pray, Your grace abundantly upon us

And make those hastening to attain Your promises heirs to the treasures of Heaven.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, Your Son,

who lives and reigns with You in the unity of the Holy Spirit,

one God for ever and ever.

 

 

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

In making this prayer tangible for during the week the following reflection questions emerged:

1.Do I truly believe in the power of God to pardon and show mercy to me?

2. When have I/do I experience this power?

3. What is my ‘relationship’ to the Sacrament of Reconciliation?  How will I improve this relationship this coming week?

4.What are the promises of God? How do I attain them?

5.How can I receive some of the treasures of Heaven now/this coming week?

6.How will I ensure this coming week that my life shows my goal of wishing to attain Heaven?

 

 GOSPEL REFLECTION

Today’s Gospel from St Matthew shows through the parable that lip service is not acceptable to God- in working in His vineyard.  There is no room for hypocrisy. In the parable Jesus was warning the chief priests and elders, knowing full well that this was the type of service they were offering God.  Yet, in His mercy, Jesus through the parable teaches them to look at their lives and change.  Did they listen and take action?  Some may have listened  and some may have taken some action for some of the time and of course some did not the need to change.

 

Of course, the parable is not only for those chief priests and elders.  It is for ourselves too.  We need to listen to this Gospel and hear Jesus ask us whether we will go into His vineyard today.  Will we be like the first or second son.

Notice that the first son said yes immediately but did not follow through with the necessary action.  The second son said no initially but thought the better of it- in other words, he realised his mistake and took action to rectify it.

 

We all have a first and second son in each of us.  We need to identify the times we tend to be like the first son. We need to ask ourselves why we give lip service and we need to remember that every time we give lip service to someone we are really giving lip service to God.  Are the any patterns in the activity that leads us to give lip service or it that we really don’t care enough about doing work in the vineyard of the Lord- in our home workplace, parish and wider world?

 

Then we need to examine the second son in us. What are the occasions that we tend to say no to initially and why do we say no?  What are the occasions we have said no and gained benefit when we have rectified these poor decisions?

I wonder whether when we asked to do something whether it may be better to say  and mean something such as ’ I will give consideration to your request’- then we can think sincerely about what is being asked of us and whether we can do the task. We are not under pressure to give an answer straight away.  For some people making a quick assessment of a situation is difficult for them and they prefer to think about it first.  Putting them on the spot is a sure way to get a no answer immediately. However allowing them to think and return to you with their answer means they will be fully committed if they say yes. They have thought if through.

 

Jesus gives us the chance to be both sons and still loves us. He wants us to work in His vineyard but He wants us to be willing participants in His work. The other aspect of saying Yes and then not following through at both the practical and spiritual level is trust is either gained or lost in the process.  If we say yes and then do not follow through and we do this regularly, then our word means nothing. We cannot be trusted. Saying no initially could be impulsive and we could miss out on God’s graces for the task He is asking of us through someone else.  When we think the better of it, it takes a certain amount of humility to admit we made a mistake and backtrack.

 

God wants us to work for Him in building up the Kingdom.  The church is in a state around the world along with the world itself desperately trying to take God out of the psyche of society.  We need to be prepared to say Yes to God and mean it = to say yes whole heartedly and be ready to roll up our sleeves and get working for Him.   We may not earn treasure for us on earth but we will be building treasure for our souls so that we will be ready for Heaven.

 

 

 

 

Sunday, September 20, 2020

Collect for 25th Sunday of Year A

 

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COLLECT

 

The Collect for the 24th Sunday of Year reads as follows:

 

O God, who founded all the commands of Your sacred Law

upon love of You and of our neighbour,

grant that, by keeping Your precepts,

we may merit to attain eternal life. 

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, Your Son,

who lives and reigns with You in the unity of the Holy Spirit,

one God for ever and ever.

 

 

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

In making this prayer tangible for during the week the following reflection questions emerged:

  1. .    What is the state of my relationship with God right now? 
  2.     What is my relationship with my neighbour?.   
  3.   What is my relationship with myself- do I love myself as God loves me as a child of God?
  4. What do I need to do to know the precepts of the Catholic Church to make them my own? Do I know them and can apply them in my life?
  5. How badly do I want to attain eternal life?

 

GOSPEL REFLECTION

Jesus says in today’s Gospel ‘Why be envious because I am generous.’

From the psychological perspective, envy is caused by a dissatisfaction with self-image—our perception of our actual stature. This dissatisfaction is also called low self-esteem—a poor self-appraisal of our actual stature. Because we feel inferior to the person we may envyenvy is related to shame. Envy encourages us to achieve higher stature.

There are a variety of key signs of when we fall into the trap of being envious and/or are being targeted by someone in our lives who is envious of us.  To read more about these signs you may wish to click on this link

If we think of those workers in the parable who worked hard all day in the heat, they were tired and weary but they also would have likely to have had low self esteem.  Why- they were unemployed. Yes, the vineyard owner gave them work for the day. They would have likely to have been grateful for that initially at the beginning of the day, but on an ongoing basis, they knew in their hearts that this employment was going to be short lived. They were not able to deal with their issues of shame.

The other problem for our early workers in the parable is that they expected more when it was not their call to expect more.  Notice too, they took the money but grumbled.  If they really were that angry with the vineyard owner for his treatment of them, then why did they accept the money and then grumble. After all, Jesus points out it was what was agreed upon in their contract with the vineyard owner.

 

So what about us?  Are we envious/jealous?   How do you feel when you are struggling and you hear of someone winning tattslotto?  Do you really wish them well or do you truly wish it was you who had the good fortune?  Do you feel a tinge of envy- perhaps you might even say’ I wish that was me’?  Are you able to wish someone well without comparing or wanting it for yourself?

 

It is interesting to note that when we look at envy from the spiritual perspective that envy is listed as one of the seven deadly sins or the seven capital sins. The Church encourage us to practise virtue to combat our traits/sinfulness.  We can ask the Holy Spirit to root out the deadly sin of envy and replace it with the fruit of the Spirit of generosity.  For each of the 7 deadly sins which kill the life of God within us and makes our conscience dead to the life of Christ, the Church provides the remedy- the Virtues which are the vaccine for these deadly sins.  Unlike a vaccine, we need to be continually injected with the fruits of the Spirit and practise these virtues every day. 

 

Why was it that the first group of works grumbled and not the other workers?   They lacked appreciation for what the vineyard owner did for them. He gave them work for that day.  The other workers were given a better outcome through the generosity of the vineyard owner.  The first group had expectations which were not theirs to have and they failed to appreciate that their work in the field was valuable.  If they had a healthy self esteem, they would have been pleased that the other workers did well and they would have taken pride in their own work. 

 

So where do we fit into this parable?  Are we the vineyard owner able to be generous with what we have because God has been  kind to us?  Are we in the position to provide work for other people and provide a fair wage for their work?

Do we grumble at home or at work when other people are promoted or get a raise/bonus and we do not or are we able to be pleased for them?

 

There are many applications in our lives to this parable.  We need to remember what Jesus said ‘  ‘Why be envious because I am generous.’

 

 

Sunday, September 6, 2020

Collect for 23rd Sunday of Year A

 

COLLECT SERIES

 

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COLLECT

 

The Collect for the 23rd Sunday of Year reads as follows:

 

O God, by whom we are redeemed and receive adoption,
Look graciously upon Your beloved sons and daughters,
that those who believe in Christ may receive true freedom
and an everlasting inheritance.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, Your Son,

who lives and reigns with You in the unity of the Holy Spirit,

one God for ever and ever.

 

 

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

In making this prayer tangible for during the week the following reflection questions emerged:

1 1. What is my attitude/views of adopting a baby? 

  2. How might these attitudes/views of adoption affect my response to being a child of God through adoption? 

3.  3  What is my attitude/response to Jesus died for me and redeemed me?

4.    What part of me do I need further spiritual growth/redemption?
5.    If I am to receive everlasting inheritance, then how is my spiritual life? 
6.    Take some time this week to consider my spiritual life- take a stock take and make a plan of what I need to change? 

 

 GOSPEL REFLECTION

 

Are we on fire for the Lord?  Is God our no 1 priority in every moment of every day?  If our answer is well sort of… or I am too busy… or God loves me so it does not matter or some other response that is not a definite yes then we need to examine our spiritual lives and make some changes. 

The other question that we need to consider from today’s Gospel is how much do I love my brother/sister/neighbour when you can clearly see that they are heading down an ungodly path?  Are we willing to love them enough to help them make a uturn towards God?

We can see that we are not our brother’s keeper or why should I point out a splinter in my neighbour’s eye when I still have a plank in my own.   If we truly are on fire for the Lord and want to live with Him in eternity, then we can start to live it now and encourage others to do the same.  It is their choice but as today’s Gospel points out that if we fail to assist our neighbour and help put them back on the right path, then God counts us accountable- it is a sin of omission.  We see our neighbour heading in the wrong direction and we say nothing out of fear/ ridicule/ rejection or for some other reason, then it shows that we are lukewarm in our faith- not fired up and obviously do not consider the things of God to be important enough to share with our neighbour.

 

Of course, the manner in which we approach our neighbour and have a conversation is vital.  We need to pray to the Holy Spirit to provide the words, the right setting for the person whom we wish to speak.  That is not to be a cop out either. We need to pray about it, but also act trusting that the Holy Spirit will bear fruit in the other person. It may not be immediate but we will have sown the seed and also shown that our faith is important enough and that we love them enough to want them to share eternity with God.

 

We need to examine our own spiritual life and take a stock take.  What do I need to change to be on fire for the Lord and to love God with my whole heart, body, mind soul?  What will I change this week?