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Holy Spirit – Week 5: The Fruit of the Spirit – Patience
“But
the fruit of the Spirit is… patience…” – Galatians 5:22
Last
week we explored peace as a fruit of the Spirit. This week, we shift to
a fruit that often stretches us the most: patience. It's the quiet
strength that helps us endure with grace, wait with trust, and love without
rushing.
What
is Patience?
Patience
is more than simply waiting. It’s the ability to remain calm and faithful in
the face of delay, suffering, or difficulty. It’s a peaceful endurance that
holds steady when things don’t go according to our timeline. In the Latin
tradition, the word patientia is related to pati – to suffer or
endure.
Patience
is a quiet fruit, but a strong one. It gives us the inner strength to pause
rather than react, to forgive repeatedly, and to trust that God's timing is
perfect—even when it doesn’t feel like it.
Scripture
Reflection
- “The
Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness.
Instead, he is patient with you…”
– 2 Peter 3:9
- “Love
is patient, love is kind…”
– 1 Corinthians 13:4
- “Be
patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord.” – James 5:7
These
verses remind us that God is patient with us. When we live in the Spirit, we
begin to reflect that same patience in our relationships with others—and with
ourselves.
How
Patience Connects with the Gifts of the Spirit
Patience
is strengthened by the gifts of fortitude, wisdom, and understanding.
Fortitude gives us the strength to endure trials. Wisdom reminds us to look at
time and suffering through God's eyes. Understanding helps us accept what we
cannot change with humility and trust.
Practicing
Patience in Daily Life
Here
are some ways to cultivate patience:
- Pause
and Breathe: When
you feel frustration rising, take a moment to breathe. Let the Spirit
create space between impulse and response. Eg When we are in traffic and
we need to wait to turn right, we can turn our heart to God and offer a
prayer of blessing for all those who pass us on the road. This Pausing and
breathing whilst offering a prayer for other road users helps us to become
more patient as we wait our turn to turn right.
- Surrender
Control: Practice
saying, “Not my timing, Lord, but Yours.”
- Extend
Grace: Be patient
with those who test you. Choose compassion instead of irritation.
- Be
Gentle with Yourself:
We all need patience with our own failings and limitations. Let the Spirit
remind you that we are a work in progress.
- Wait
in Hope: When we
are waiting—for healing, for answers, for change—turn our waiting into
prayer and hope, not worry or despair.
Opportunity
to Journal:
- In what
situations do I find it easiest to be patient? Do I thank God for this
fruit?
- Where do
I struggle with impatience most—people, circumstances, or myself?
- How
might the Holy Spirit be inviting me to grow in patience right now?
- Can I
see how patience is already bearing fruit in my life?
- Which
gift of the Spirit helps me most when I need patience?
A
Closing Thought:
Patience
may not feel exciting, but it is deeply holy. In a world that rushes and
demands instant everything, patience is a powerful witness. It tells the world
that we trust in God's timing, not our own. It is not passive—it is hopeful,
faithful endurance.
Come, Holy Spirit, grow in me the fruit of patience.
Teach me to wait with trust, to bear trials with peace,
and to walk with quiet strength through all seasons of
life. Amen.